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What it Really Means to Be a Successful Writer

You Didn't Fail Because You Don't Have a Big Life

That Time When an X-Ray Tech Showed Me an X-Ray on His Phone of a Man with a Beer Bottle Up Yonder...

Don't Torch The Skin You Live In

These Strange Parasocial Relationships

So, I've A New Novel Idea...

I'm Learning How to Walk Again

Freshly Baked Links v1

What a Shattered Knee, a Diabetic Cat, and a Hot Mess of a Trip Will Teach You

Is Writing Elitist? Yes. But It Shouldn't Be

The Summer Judy Fell Out of Window and My Hair Turned White

Here's Me Quietly Tip-Toeing Back To Social Media

Why I Feel At Home in Thrift Stores

"No one’s a garbage fire. Everybody is a human being."

PSA: Don't Write to Settle Scores

I Spent Seven Hours in the ER Last Night

'Do What You Love' is The Cruelest Advice You Can Give Someone

Sit Still. Close Your Eyes. Wait for the Bloom.

Updated 8.12.23: A Brief Update on Felix's Health Situation

Maybe the World is Beautiful and Worth Fighting For

Steal Inspiration From the Strangest Places

How to Use Brand-Building Techniques to Find Your Voice as a Writer (Trust Me On This)

Bless Bakersfield's Heart

Gather All the Monsters

What I'm Reading to Flee Existential Despair

Don’t Tie Your Worth To What You Produce

You Need to Get Surgical About Your Writing

It's the End of My Ambition & I Feel Fine

Take Me Back to Brooklyn, Take Me Home (An Essay)

Writing Can Be A Love, A Passion, A Hobby--But It Doesn't Have to Be a Career

The Teeth Glow Under Black Lights

Why New York No Longer Feels Like Home to Me

Did Someone Order the Narcissism Entree?

You Only Need a Single Strand of Hair to Build a Beautiful Braid

I Believed in a God, Once

There's a Certain Kind of Woman...

The One Thing You Need to Write Memorable Memoir--Perspective

Welcome to The Season When Your Allergies Threaten to Remove You From The Census

Maybe You Don't Need to Live a Bombastic Life

You're Not a Failure if You Give Up On Something. No, Seriously.

Gone Are The Days When You Can Just Be an Artist

Do I Bet on Myself When I've Lost Every Hand Since 2015?

F&CK The Haters. No Chump Will Steal My Joy!

How I Write--Even When I'm Not Writing

15 Books Worth Sinking Your Teeth Into

I'm Taking a Long Break

"I Know What 'Nothing' Means, and Keep on Playing"

A MONSTER Round-Up of Articles on Writing, Creativity, All That Jazz That I've Been Loving

Let's Talk About Predatory Coaches Who Prey On Your Vulnerability for $$$

Let's Talk About Mean Girls & Bullying

How to Write Your Way Through the Middle

Characters Always Take You Where You Want to Go

What I'm Reading This Week While Wallowing in Existential Despair

Climbing Back to the Friendship We Used to Have

How Do You Deal With Losing Years of Your Life?

Tell Me Who I Am

I'M ON A HEATER

Why I'm Fed Up Working in Marketing

Your Writing Doesn't Need to Be Big to Be Beautiful